You don’t have to spend your days on holiday, the lap of luxury or indeed have any of the trappings of the rich to have a relationship that will last forever.

Money, fine things, the mortgage paid off etc., help as does a good job and a secure future, but to be absolutely honest you don’t need money to love someone, in fact that practice I believe is called the “oldest profession in the world.”

Which is why it is a shame that so many people these days seem to think that the only way to happiness in any form is through riches, it isn’t. If you talk to couples who have been together for a long time they will, if you know them well enough talk about the times when they didn’t have two pennies to rub together and of course laugh about it.

If you worry more about the fact that your next partner might not have two pennies to rub together than whether he or she is kind, caring and loving, then your next relationship and the ones that follow will be a chain of disasters.

Try to think beyond the flat screen TV, a car that is less than two years old and all of the other rubbish that is so short term, if you want a relationship that lasts and will last forever then you have to think about things that won’t wear out like love, kindliness, caring and to be honest the things that make a relationship last.

So even if you are poor by others crazy standards you can walk off into the sunset together but it might not be a Caribbean one, but if you are both happy walking off into a Caribbean sunset would just be the icing on the Diamond Anniversary Cake wouldn’t it.

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Ok Ladies and Gentlemen the weather is bad everywhere and I thought that maybe as we are all stuck somewhere and possibly getting a bit down it might be time to have some fun.

Here are ten things that you shouldn’t say on a date, and indeed most of which you should never say to anyone ever.

I hope that the snow disappears and we get back to normal soon, stay safe out there.

You look good, is that one of those wonderbras?

I can’t say I know this restaurant, I have never been here before but I saw that they had a “two for the price of one deal this month.”

Do you have that feeling that they are watching you?

Oh! I am a very spiritual person, in fact I have a native Indian Spirit Guide!

No I won’t thanks, my doctors say I shouldn’t drink while I am on these drugs!

Well I didn’t mean to show everything because when I had dropped my trousers that scared the Jehovah’s Witnesses enough but when my underwear hit the ground, well I have never see anyone run that fast.

You can trust me!

I really liked your brother and the rest of your family, are you adopted?

Call me, your will call me won’t you, you won’t forget to call will you?

It is nice to get out of the house and of course to talk to someone, although I never seem to have anything much to say.

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Are you single and have been for a while now? If so it is entirely possible that you have started to wonder if you will every get a partner and form a long lasting relationship and when that happens you start to think that maybe dating is not the answer and should you even bother?

Well take heart and think about this for a moment. If there was some sort of supreme being and he or more likely she made all of the decisions and with the benefit of his or her amazing intelligence pair us all up based on how well we would get on, what colour our eyes were, what we liked and so on would that work or would he or she make mistakes, some of the cleverest things in the world like say for instance computers make mistakes just take the Lotto computer it must make mistakes because it has never chosen me.

Without dating and happily dating websites such as www.easilyfriends.com we wouldn’t have the fun of finding the person we rather like the look of, chatting to them, going on a date and slowly over a period of time discovering that we really like this person, surely dating is much better than being paired off just because we appear to be compatible.

Isn’t it a good job that we are human because sometimes the people we end up with are nothing like the stereotypes that computers suggest, which of course is why dating sites like www.easilyfriends.com are so much better than dating agencies who favour computer dating, computers should only date themselves shouldn’t they?

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I have been talking to the good people at www.easilyfriends.com and they have just told me that they have seen a massive increase in the numbers of people registering, free of course, to their service.

Now the reason that is good news is that the more people men and women on a dating website the better and so I strongly suggest that you visit the site and get dating, it is the only way to find a partner and of course it won’t ever cost you a penny, now or at anytime in the future and that is because www.easilyfriends.com is a site that is and always will be free.

Between you and me I don’t think that they would mind if you clicked on an ad here or there while you are doing what you came for but they exist to find you a date, enter a relationship and most of all be happy, what a nice bunch of people they are!

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Whether you are in a relationship or looking for one, I suggest that you make 2010 a new beginning and that is because there is nothing more exciting for couples than to do different things and surprise each other, with flowers, treats and of course in the bedroom.

If you aren’t in a relationship and sadly I know that a lot of my readers both men and women have yet to find that special partner who is out there waiting to complete their life, it is time to look at yourself.

Think about the people you meet, on dates, casually and in general, try and analyse what you like about them and then compare that to your ‘ideal’ person.

We all have ‘idea’ people and of course because they are imaginary we endow them with all sorts of attributes and talents, but sometimes we might be guilty of imagining that our perfect partner who we have carefully constructed exists, they don’t, they never have and frankly they never will.

We all have deficiencies, are capable of annoying ourselves with our little ways let alone our partners so no one can be perfect can they.

So think about what you liked in the people you have met recently and try to create a ‘perfect’ partner who is a little more realistic and you never know you may actually have met him or her already, you just didn’t know it yet.

Write to me with your thoughts you can find me here most days www.easilyfriends.com.

Let’s make 2010 a new beginning for everyone and then we’ll all be happier at the end of the year!

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Hello all I only made two new Year’s resolutions this year and they are to help everyone I can to find a partner and to answer more of your questions about relationships.

In both of these endeavours I am going to need your help, the first resolution to find you a partner will require your help and the second requires your questions, so let’s get started and make 2010 the “Year of the Successful Relationship.”

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